I am the only female grandchild on my father's side. I have three brothers. I have a ton of male friends. All of the men I know enjoy a sense of humor. Hot women without one never last. Maybe in my 20's I would've found a similar pattern as you have, but now that I approach 40, I can tell you this: the funny, confident women have staying power. When your boyfriend said men don't think women are funny, you should've responded, "You know what I think is funny? The fact that I thought this relationship had a future." There is nothing more desirable than a woman with a personality, and you should start hanging out with more men who know that.